Love happens,really?

Ok, i've been spending tons of my time in front of my computer doing up flashes and photo shopping stuffs here and there.My mum is complaining about seeing the back of my head silhouetted by a computer monitor while i was doing all that shet. I'm coding so much so that i'm becoming a geek who shuns sun light and has a diet of 2 meals per day. If I don't start blogging now i'm going to start to avoid any form of communication with any body.

Been paying attention to the couples around me recently . Its interesting , to see how they try so hard to make things work,well, some of them they did succeed, for those who don't , trust me , i feel sorry for you.

That gave questions , whether the reason why they are so motivated to try so hard is because of love. Then its funny how they endlessly pour effort into something which isn't realistic. Ask any one , would you love him or her so much so that you're gonna walk the aisle together? Actually , i'ld laugh when some one answered yes to that question. Then , again for those who say they won't , why are you trying so hard for? Then there are those who decides not to choose. These people form the majority actually, maybe thats what ethically decided as , the correct way of perceiving the question.

Maybe falling in love doesn't have to be of realism . It just happens and goes as it is. How ever , I reckon it works the same when you engage in a relationship. Sure at some point of time you love each other , but tsk, what gives ? Maybe being in a relationship doesn't require love for each other after all .. it can be just , there .

Take for example a friend i have , now , whether he is a total jerk or not , you decide(ps. he might be another of my imaginary friend , so please re confirm before you assume). He is with
this girl well, for some time. He goes out with her and all and yea , they behave just like any couples would do. How ever , he has been having flings , ok , maybe not having , going to have or thinking along that line. He is sex driven and woots , other "hotter" girls appeal to him out there.In fact , he almost takes that his gf doesn't exist at all. Then it makes me wonder, why is he even in that relationship.

Well, one thing is for sure , people are still looking for their "suitable"partners here and there , me too~ That makes us all jerks and sluts huh? Wth , you must be wondering what point i'm trying to prove , well stop thinking, its 2 in the morning and i don't know what i'm typing again , whats more, there isn't a point to start with..